Moms-What are you doing to your child?

Come on moms, what the hell are you doing? Do you ever ask yourselves that? When your child has gone to bed and it’s quiet do you wonder what kind of damage you are doing to your child’s future? What benefit is it to your child to prevent him/her from having a meaningful relationship with their father? For those of you that feel the pangs of guilt immediately and want to justify your actions by saying “He is not a good father”, “My ex was a bad man” or whatever other relevant excuse you can come up with on a moment’s notice, just stop now. Only in rare cases should a father not be allowed to share in his child’s life. If the father is indeed horribly misguided and abusive, then this post will not apply to you.

I am speaking to the countless number of women whom are nothing short of vindictive and punish the fathers simply because they wield the power to do so. I have known many women just like “YOU”. I was raised by a woman just like you and have personally experienced the unnecessary damage done to children over these heartless acts that a woman will perform just because she can. It’s a horrendous grievance that many fathers in our country are not able to be co-parent their children. I don’t want to hear the excuse of “well he isn’t paying child support”. That is a whole other issue that the court will deal with, I am speaking directly to the importance of a father’s role in the life of a child.  Stop depriving your child of a male role model.  Your child(ren) need and deserve to know their father.

Moms, sit down and seriously think deeply about what if you were on the receiving end of such revenge? What if you could not spend quality time talking to and sharing your child’s life? It would be devastating! Please for the sake of your children’s future, allow your children the glorious opportunity to know their father and let the love he has for them to flourish and nurture them.